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I think it's sad that a four-year-old girl had to ask this question in the first place. I'm afraid this is just the first of the many discrepancies she's is going to notice as she gets older. :(

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With a long rant about the difference in the way our society perceives males and females, the expectations and the repercussions of not living up to them, and ending with a celebratory swim suit burning?

My mom just said, 'girls have breasts'.

I was wondering what the answer should be... I imagine I will have to deal with that question in a year or two. I like what Purplesque's mom said. Direct and honest.

But I am curious to know what you replied Lakshmi...
How about, "Well, girls like to wear a lot of clothes."
"Because boys have no shame"
I merely said "because girls always have prettier clothes to wear than boys". She asked why. I said because girls are prettier than boys.
I will only have myself to blame if she grows up to be a man-hater.

L, I usually tell my son that girls' clothes are prettier than boys' clothes when he complains that I never return empty-handed from a store without buying her a pretty dress or a shiny bauble. I know it's unfair, but it's so much more fascinating to shop for little girls.

"Maybe you can become a designer when you grow up and make cool clothes for boys," I usually say to him. (I sincerely hope he has a backup plan in that case.)

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